Amy,
I started ready your first thread...all I can say is WOW! You have been through so much. Will keep reading through your sitch since it does sound in some ways similar to mine.

H is still living here, no talks of his moving out since 2/15. In fact no talks about our relationship since then. Have had plenty of sex \:\) Definitely more than before December. Few times a week. Last night I wore a new dress out for cocktails and H actually commented later that he loved the dress and that it accentuated my curves. One thing lead to another...

Yeah, I guess you could call this the "cake eating" phase. Still not positive about OW, but assuming he is with her sometimes. Since I enjoy the physical contact, for right now I am going to go with it.

All other DB principles I am trying to stick to.

For today, I am not so concerned that after he works he will go see OW. For today I am headed to the gym and then a friend's play this afternoon. So just for today, I am trying to focus on me.

Thanks again for your situation threads. My computer is going to be worked on this morning so later I hope to finish reading your sitch!