I retrospec it was a mistake as it probably had a more enabling behavior than the "soft" response that I was hoping for

The kids were playing in the woods so I sent a pic to the wife. She responded with "How r u guys" I responded with "Very good trip"

She sent funny pic back and I just joked back

I want her to miss me and the boys this weekend. Not sure if what I did with the pics helped that or not

We shall see. Its a good trip so far

Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13