Well yesterday didn't go as planned , but that's life.
NO WAVES
The wife left town after work to go pick her mother up at the airport in a city 4hrs. away. Today she and her mother will spend the day there at a big war protest.
She had called me from work in the morning and asked me to do her a few favors. she asked me to do some laundry, look for a backpack and clean out the car. I did all of it and was happy to do it.
You see before my change i would have grumbled about it to her, so I feel this is part of my 180. The thing is when she came home and was getting ready to go she didn't really say to much about the fact that i had done all of this as quick as I could because I knew she was on a tight schedule. I don't really think she actually thanked me.
Now is this me having expectations about her be thankfull. Or should I just be happy to do it for her because I just want to help out a friend and not expect anything in return.
Or am I just being a doormat?
You see she has said to me in the past how much she appreciates the fact that I have changed in this manner. She said before she felt like if she were to ask for a favor I would expect something in return and have an atitude about it.
So how should I frame it when she asks for something in the future?
