you are what you THINK you are, to a very large degree.
I do for, the most part, have a pretty good self image. When I see myself in the mirror or in photos I often question if that is really me. I see the image and I say to myself, "Wow am I really that thin?" It's not the way I perceive myself.
I do still need to work on myself as S&A says, and I am doing that. Will this make a difference in whether Mrs. Cinco will find me more attractive? I really don't care, it's her loss if she doesn't.