hey Kerry,

I am sure X will be upset, but

That line speaks volumes to me.....I know it is just one phrase in a long post, but it is the one that grabbed me.

In spite of all the wrong that our exes have done, we still do not want to cause any hurt or make any waves.

Wonder if that is a Gemini thing Ali?

You're a good man Kerry...hope your "girlfriend" feels better soon!