Oops!!.......I think I've dropped the rope!!

[glamgirl]

Wow you have your plate running over. How's that working for you with your h?

I read your stuff and think back that I handled things pretty much the same. Well SC, your h isn't going to hear it. You might feel better for saying it, but he isn't going to hear what you have to say or care. He actually will use it against you and it's just fuel for the fire.

You really just need to try to detach and get away from your h. You spend way to much time telling him about this and that. Just quit discussing anything with him unless he asks.

As his response about ow and nobody's business tells you exactly where he is at in this journey. No need to confirm to him that he is an a$$, he won't see anyway. I remember feeling how you are feeling, but I can truly say that h and I are onto a new chapter in our life, but we were at our lowest and it was a mess almost 3 years ago.

Congrats on the GD! Think about what could work for you SC. Your h is gone for now and you need to accept that, but you don't have to let him know anymore how you feel. He doesn't care and he won't get it. Hugs!