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Ha!


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
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So,

That is why we sometimes blow off steam, to laugh, to think about other crap, even if it is just the next 'zinger' to sting Mach or trapt with.

Me, I'm not the LBS anymore, but I know how valuable NOT thinking about her and what she 'might' be doing is.

Life is what you make it, one of several valuable lessons I learned here. Make it fun.

Life is also not fair, don't cry about it, Life doesn't care.



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you all are making my 41 year old xh with a 26 year old sound not so bad.lol


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M:42
H:40
S:18
M:20yrs/together 21yrs
Bomb:9/08 ILYBNILWY
Sep:9/18/08 "ow" :25
Filed:11/18/08
D:12/8/08
M:Different 26 yr. old 7/09.
Newborn 4/10
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Yeah, at least she can order alcohol. LOL
H has got to be one sick b**tard.
He's almost old enough to be her dad! Ewwwwwww....


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And yet all these women are ok with a fictional 108 year old vampire falling in love with a 16 year old...

Go figure.

: )

Go, focus on you.

By the way why did you have a conversation with him earlier today?



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That relationship is bound to last ------NOT.

What an idiot.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
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Well, the girl child in my case is 23, and there is a much bigger age difference And I met her.

What i can tell you is that you have to realize that the girl child is probably not evil, just naive, quite possibly desperate, and filled with Cinderella fantasies.

H, too, is filled with hero fantasies.

Yes, I believe it will not last and nobody supports the situation, but they are engaged.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D

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Jack,
We had the conversation this morning because I had to know some information to get the taxes finished. However, we have to talk often due to the kids. Lucky me.


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Not quite sure how to act next time we have to talk. I'm pretty sure up until this point, I have been way too nice. He was still having the best of both worlds. I need to be strictly buisness now right? Absolutely no small talk or being friendly. I just hate to have my kids parents not even be able to have a conversation with each other.


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
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I know what you mean, but you did not cause this.....


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

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