Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Well, the girl child in my case is 23, and there is a much bigger age difference And I met her.
What i can tell you is that you have to realize that the girl child is probably not evil, just naive, quite possibly desperate, and filled with Cinderella fantasies.
H, too, is filled with hero fantasies.
Yes, I believe it will not last and nobody supports the situation, but they are engaged.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
Jack, We had the conversation this morning because I had to know some information to get the taxes finished. However, we have to talk often due to the kids. Lucky me.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
Not quite sure how to act next time we have to talk. I'm pretty sure up until this point, I have been way too nice. He was still having the best of both worlds. I need to be strictly buisness now right? Absolutely no small talk or being friendly. I just hate to have my kids parents not even be able to have a conversation with each other.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
I know what you mean, but you did not cause this.....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11