I agree with Steve, stay strong, it's a hard journey. I know others have told you to don't take him back etc. But there's a reason we're here dbing. We are all here with hard situations. We could get that discouragement from all our friends and family. So I just wanted to tell you to stay strong for your kids. GAL GAL GAL!!! Michele's whole premise is to save marriges that seem unsavable, and she has. So, I know this is hard for you, but you can do it.
By the way, your text made me laugh because my WH has also sent me that text -- I will always love you. Before he left it was I'm not happy. They are so frustrating!! He told me he also told OW that I was the best thing that ever happened to him, so she should have laughed and said that is how you treat the best thing that has ever happened to you. They're confusion is sickening. Good luck.