confronted H on him business stuff as we share this business he exploded his rage has become over the top during the first 2 years he was pleasant while evwerything was still a secret his ow, living arrangements I was the co- secret keeper now I have done dim/quiet as much as possible when you share a business and kids together H has become unstable and is having many outbursts I saw H Credit card staement at the office..not pretty! so H says to the kids Im not coming tonight,,This is routine when I confront him with any kind of reality and he sayd he cant come fridays anymore his loss..I am ok with the exret time with the kids they ra so difficult to deal with these WAS I am having a hard time DB with him anymore I feel like it is enabling him to prtetend all he did was OK at the same time my dimness/detachmnet and unavailability to H make him angrier toward me and makes our R nonexsistant but rith now, I need to back away he is a sick man and i need space to let go and move on with my life and I dont want to give him the satisfaction of the perfect wife or XW who still loves him despiyte his awful choices and secret life I am praying for forgiveness..its may take some time Thanks to all for respomnding//it really helps peace peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
