Well, the girl child in my case is 23, and there is a much bigger age difference And I met her.
What i can tell you is that you have to realize that the girl child is probably not evil, just naive, quite possibly desperate, and filled with Cinderella fantasies.
H, too, is filled with hero fantasies.
Yes, I believe it will not last and nobody supports the situation, but they are engaged.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D