I appreciate everyone's thoughts/encouragement. I did call her to let her know we made it to CT (she had asked). Very short call with very little conversation. She asked about traffic and I asked how her work went. Not much emotion

Big question will be what's the next move? If she's still there or not on Sun, I'm going to continue to be positive and upbeat. Acting as if everything is ok with the relationship if she's there.

Any thoughts or suggestions? I really don't want to do anything that will make her question the changes I have made. Just not sure if that's the best.


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13