I got hurt by being a friend and a listening ear, it was too soon, I was the wrong person to talk to... that's why I want you to step away, to let him deal with it and not to try to solve ANY problems for him.
Force yourself to have sub 0 expectations, please. If he wants back, he has to make himself whole on his own, to have a solid desire to want YOU as a woman not as a crutch, not because he is lonely/depressed/sad ... that perhaps having an R with you *might* make him feel differently... that's BS. BTDT.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
