sometimes I'd rather he behaved like a jerk, as being "nice" reminded me too much of what was or should've been, could've been. I keep stbx chit chat "nothing happened here folks" attitude in check by going to the point when we have to talk about kids or stuff, if he asks me stuff not related with kids I just say "I dont know" and immediatly change the subject, I think he's got it by now, we have nothing in common anymore other than the kids.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
