I was so happy that you found such a tremendous clue in your mystery that I failed to think about how terrible you must feel about him trading your pain for his pride.
Wow. That is a betrayal of sorts, isn't it.
Now I want to come there and stick a hot poker in his butt.
I hope you find resolution, Jayce. You have stayed by his side for a long time. You certainly earned my respect for how you've handled your situation.