FIB, there is a lot of scouting stuff online. Sites to help you fulfill some of the requirements and such.
Dont even ask her about the freakin' book. She is acting like an as*. Just do your own thing with your son.
Just keep doing the right thing by your kids. She is going to hang herself in court and in her children's eyes. For the kid's sake, I hope she gets her act together.
In the meantime, find a nice lawn chair for the show because I think she is going to self-destruct.