Yeah, they are warped. Mine had actually lied to his family and told them that I was dating someone!! OMG! I don't have time to date anyone because I am dealing with OUR kids 24/7. I had to inform my MIL that her son is a liar. No telling what kind of crap they tell the OW. I can just hear it now... She up and left me, took my kids, took all of my stuff, takes all of my money, yada,yada,yada.
Oh, btw, if you read my thread, you will see that I just found out OW is 19. Yep, you read it right folks. 19. So, I no longer refer to her as the OW, she is now the womanchild. Someone he works with. He could lose his job, as he is upper management. What a f****** dumb a**. If he loses his job he better go start digging ditches to help support his kids, because I won't forgive the child support. If he won't take the time to see them he can at least send them money.
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