Hi Sandi, Thanks for your words of wisdom once more! Had to look up what LL was (love language).
Ever since H went to play tennis on tuesday, his back has been completely screwed up. So he has asked me to massage his back about 3x since then. I didn't volunteer, but he asked so I did. Didn't take it any further than that but wanted to!
This a.m., saw H at the gym but I left early. Came home quick, showered and met some friends for breakfast so wasn't here when he came home. Didn't leave a note or a message (SO UNLIKE ME). I feel bad but shouldn't because I don't know what the H*LL he does with his spare time anymore. I feel like I'm playing games.
I will try not to "fix the silence" like you suggested the next time that arises. Good advice.
My question about 180 is that his issue was "I never initiated sex". If I do a 180 and be the initiator, do you think that is still pursuing? He doesn't seem to mind when I do, but then is usually distant the next day.
Me 44 H 50 S 18 D 15 M 19 /T 22 R in trouble/says he plans to leave later this year
