One of the positives in all of this is that I have grown so much closer to them. They are unbelievable, I can't remember what I did all of the time before them LOL! It is so amazing to watch and help them develop. I can't believe how fast they catch on to things.
When I write that I am gratfeul that this happened to me, and I wouldn't change it if I could, that is part of the reason. I'm glad you are seeing the good in this Trapt. : )
It is all worth it down the road, as long as you walk the road carefully.
Although I will not do this again, I would not trade what I have learned from it....