I think I'm done...

[MsMelancoly]

Hi SoConfused, Don't worry to much about exposing ow. I think it happens more than not. In the end it's probably a huge weight off your shoulds. Really, it doesn't matter how detached you are, you still hurt. I was pretty detached when I found out. How can you not feel hurt, betrayed and shocked. My heart fell right into my stomach like a big lump of coal. On the other hand I see many positives in your actions. You layed out the boundaries plane as day of what's acceptable & what is not. Bravo to that!! Keep venting here, it really does help.