I like your suggestion and will try it out. I'm glad you are feeling some peace when you utter those words of forgiveness. As others have suggested to me, forgiveness (just like love) is a decision that you make and you have to work hard at it every day, especially in the beginning. For many people it does not just happen and that is what I was expecting.
I appreciate everyone who has taken the time to post with their views on forgiveness. It has helped me put things into perspective.
Momof2girls, do you have a thread? I was looking for your old threads but couldn't find them.
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