Gman and 4kids...WOW. I am blown away that you guys are still here with me....not to say that all the others who still are with are here too (??? did I just say that)?
I'm not sure how many'positives' there can be with regards to a divorce. Clearly...my STBXW has anger issues and clearly she has maturity issues as well. She is a hurt little girl in a woman's body.
As for me, I am predicting that by next court date, 4/23, the financial appraisal will be complete and then custody discussions will begin.
I predict that the court will order my house to be sold, unless my W is coming up with a plan to buy out my half. That is, her parents offer to buy the house or if OM4 is wealthy and lurking in the wings. Her father is retired and her mother, IMO, is hanging on long enough to get my STBXW into her school. Buying the house would certainly ? exhaust the retirement nest egg, no?
Dunno.
I don't look forward to not seeing my kids everyday. It still seems like it will be unbearable for a time.
As time goes forward, it is amazing how the 'bad times' accumulate and seem to overtake and overpower the good times.
Bomb 5/06 7 good
Now, 7 good, 3 bad
The memories of my STBXW now...are besmirched..soiled...changed. I am swimming in a cesspool of her anger and vindictiveness and it fouls me.
It's time.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
