I've moved here from MLC

[AJM]

That's what I was saying before. You'll have your slips. You'll just have to brush it off and start again.

Actually, I find that interesting that he's still sticking to "the script" and saying that you have the most to lose -projection if you ask me. He's got a lot to lose, but won't take his responsibility in this.

He's also likely hurt from the previous you. That will be ther a while. He'll have to learn to trust you again. That will be painful, confusing, and will take forever.

You're doing great. Keep it low-key. Detach because otherwise you'll likely collide and explode. Be careful what you tell your friends outside of "we're working on our issues" - your friends want to see you stop being hurt. They'll tell you things that may not be the right stuff. I personally tell my friends to encourage me to hang in there. Anything else won't suffice.

When you get a chance to have those conversations, stay out of the R talks. That last one is going to set you back a little, but you've got his attention. At a sub-conscious level if I had to guess. He's wondering. That's good. It builds curiousity. He can't ignore it.

Go back to detaching and GAL'ng. The summer's coming and you'll enjoy it. Work on you and don't even TRY to work on him until you're happy with the changes in you. That should be your next goal. In the meantime, this last time was three days. Can you go four?

AJ