I think the "presence" of a man is a big part of it. This is one of the areas I've had to and continue to work at. I've been blessed physically and played pro ball a few years and have never let myself go physically. Confidence wise I sometimes struggle though and I've noticed women can really sense that. You can be in tip top shape and get ignored. I was criticized a lot by my dad growing up and it created a bit of "I'm not good enough" feelings in me. I think I've gotten over them for the most part but on occasion they creep back in.
