Just an opinion Jayce but that is a pretty personal issue for a guy. He kept it "away" from you for too long but I have to admit I think I can empathise and understand why he/a guy would keep quiet about it. It is a huge emoptional issue with almost all down side. It is a big deal as far as being "a man". It isn't very manly to go running to your wifey about something like this - something she can't help on and may not be very understanding or sensitive about. I personally would be seeing a doctor and trying to resolve it before I confided in or talked to my wife about something like this.

JMO