What is really odd is how the Ml'er puts the cart before the horse.
They can't see that the affair caused the negative behaviors from the spouse.
They think the spouses negative behaviors MADE THEM have the affair or LEAVE THE FAMILY.
Call it delusion, irrational behavior, justification, etc.....
These guys really see things like this.
absolutely! My H STILL claims everything is my fault. 100% my fault. Unfortunately, he's also convinced his family (my only family) and most of our friends of that as well. But this is exactly what happened!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
