Oops!!.......I think I've dropped the rope!!

[mishka422]

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Congrats on the grandbaby!!!! What a blessing! Had you not seen your D in a while? I have heard of many cases of women not knowing they are pregnant and then suddenly going into labor. Facinates me! I'm a bit of a medical story junkie.

Does your D have any other assistance? From the father? The state? She needs to apply for WIC ASAP! I never did which was a huge mistake. At the time our income was so ridiculously low that I could have qualified but I was stubborn and prideful. We struggled mightily to get formula and baby food. I work at a supermarket part time and check out WIC orders often. I'm amazed by the generosity of the program.

Your H......that man is a mess. In your posts about his comments and behaviors he seems like a completely arrogant jacka**. Sorry, just my take on it. He doesn't deserve any of your time, thoughts, or sympathies right now. It's hard to detatch like that but trust me, it is much worse to let his attitudes and opinions control you. He is manipulating you, definitely. It's going to take a lot of strength to pull back from him but I know you have it in you.