Mel, We both were the keeping up with the Joneses type of people but that is the furthest thing from my mind now and she doens't seem to be that way either now. As far as my being narcissistic and self-righteous well, I can honestly say that isn't me. If anything, I don't think I'm good enough for anyone hence the reason for reading No More Mr Nice Guy and Hold on to Your N.U.T.S. I have always been too critical on myself and am learning that I don't have to be just so all the time. It was very stressful.
The wife and I are going out to a movie and a lunch date. This is way different as we didn't do this very often. Matter of fact, I's say maybe once a year we would go out without the kid(s). Wow, that's pretty sad now that I think about it. UGGGGGHHHH!!!!!!!
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!