(((((((Julia)))))))

Anger? You betcha! But anger can push us to be constructive instead of destructive and you seem to be using it to achieve your goals.

I sincerely hope he will meet with you so you can lay your cards on the table and then walk away with nothing of importance left unsaid.

You are right, he made his bed. They all do don't they? We do the same. The only difference is the choices they made hurt other people and destroyed lives. You are the better person, you will come out on top. Look at it this way - his bad decisions forced you to grow and look at the magnificent woman you have become because of it. I'm not saying you weren't spectacular before, just that you were staying in your comfort zone. Now......watch out world!!! Here comes Julia, roaring in to take charge and be FABULOUS doing it!!!!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!