I fully got your point first time so I know the drill and thanks for the advice.
However, we're all a bit low at home, FIL got his test results today, not good news, cancer detected in his lungs and lymph glands, the treatment prescribed is more chemo but not we're sure how he'll respond to the treatment or what happens after that. W snuggled up to me last night, the night before the appointment we both just fell asleep together. Previously I got the angry mood from her but that seemed to coincided with her spending time chatting on line. So as I mentioned before she has got a lot going on in her head and I am just a small part of it.
D7 is keeping my spirits up because she says getting a new car must be just as exciting for me as when she got her new Nintendo DS at Christmas. Kids can be a blessing at times like this.