WAW - Very confused and devestated - pt 5

[confusedinpa]

Well, I talked her this morning. I didn't give her card but said what was in there (no separation line though)

She asked if I wanted her to cancel the real estate agent appt. I repeated about having the kids stay in the house as long as possible for stability

Then she asked is it ok for her to go find an apartment. I told her that she is free to do what she wants and I'm not going stop her

I did ask her to find some time while we're away to think about what she wants for life. She says that doesn't have anything to do about it. She's taking it 1 day at a time and just wants a divorce.

I stumbled with that response but said I just felt it was important. Any suggestions on this one?

She did say she may want to talk during lunch before I left with the boys