Not really Mark. Try not to be curt or rude with your answers. Just don't elaborate on anything. Don't offer any more information than she asks for and always keep it light-hearted. Don't be the one who initiates any calls or texts. Not unless you need to talk about the kids.
Also, don't rush things just because of these early signs of progress. This is still a long way from fixed but you're now starting to steer things in the right direction. Work on your patience. That was one of my main problems too. You don't have to work on things every minute of the day. You don't want to try and do too much too soon.
Kev
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.
