Wow, that IS News!!!! Congatulations to you and daughter is there a SIL if so congratulations to him to.
I would have had a million questions. I never believed it could happen but I knew one girl who it happened to and it was her 2nd so even more unbelievable. Good thing was she never had morning sickness or any of the niggles you get when pregnant.
My life has been so enriched by my g/son I am sure your suprize g/d will bring you so much joy and love. How long was it since you saw your daughter before today? Do not let your h's reaction spoil one minute of your joy. His reaction re telling his mum was odd, I can't understand that. I probably would have just told her as you are in contact,but thats me. I am such a grandma I bore everyone to death with my darling's progress.
Oh nearly forgot, glad about J. Don't butterflies do wonders for your PMA.
Just a thought, don't wait for your d to ask for help or feel overwhelmed just pop by and help out. She is bound to be still in shock for a while. Many congratulations again. I am so happy for you. I adore babies if you haven't guessed. Just enjoy and ignore all H's antics, his loss.