As far as the lawyer goes, I'm holding off for a week or so before I get to that. I may need to at least speak to one just in case. You never know what can happen and the last thing I want is to go into this without representation.
SLH- I cannot make her leave as the house will go to her and there's not a whole lot I can do about it. Long story with a bunch of legal mumbo jumbo, but it is one thing that I am positive of. That being said, she did not kick me out and has basically asked me to stay even after the divorce. I wont do that and she knows it. I can do a lot and I will more than likely stay up until the ink is dried, but there is no way I am going to live here if we are divorced. She knows how I feel about the divorce and I think it's preposterous for her to even offer. Regardless, we'll cross that bridge when we come to it.
I didn't see her much today as I was pretty occupied with a lot of stuff and so was she. Then I had a class tonight and she was asleep when I got home.
Right now I'm going to stay course and continue to do everything I was doing and if she brings it up I'll simply tell her that there's a lot of information there and I'll feel much more comfortable discussing it after I've had a lawyer look it over.
The way I have this figured is I have until April 30th to sign the paperwork, which I am not going to do. If she still is wanting to go through with it she will have to have me served. At that point I have like 30 days to act on that paperwork, which I will use all 30. Her lawyer has a court day set in June, but it appears as if that court date is set contingent on me signing and agreeing with the paperwork.
Yesterday I was in a fog and I don't know if I told you all this already (and I'm too lazy to scroll down and check), but this paperwork was filled out in early February. Everything was done around the time I started posting here. So her head and mine were in a different place at the time filled all of that out, so things may not be as dire as they first appeared. I will keep you all updated and I really appreciate the support.
