I found you!! I know how you feel about the divorce papers!! I'm so sorry that you had to go thru all of that. I actually had to go to court & go before the judge, that was one of the hardest things I've ever done. My H had filed but my lawyer said that b/c he had the affair that I was going to D him instead of him D me. I didn't like it but I didn't know what else to do.
You are doing great, getting out. I'm proud of you. I'm not to that point yet where I want to go out with men.