Ya, in one sense, she is actually communicating with me. Its not something she does any other time. So she obviously cares about what I think to some extent or she wouldn't be saying anything right?

But ya JD, I hear ya. She isn't treating me or the kids with any respect by having this A and divorcing me and splitting up our family like this.

Now before 25 comes back and slams me, granted, I did not show her the respect she needed for many years either and even as of late by not just leaving her alone.

Trying to work on that.

I guess the best way to look at it is what is best for my kids. And if it is best for them to not have her there so they can talk freely to me, then maybe that is what is best.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...