If I believed that it was ONLY MLC, I might feel like waiting it out longer. However, we have always had issues with him being honest. Years and years. Not as serious as ow, etc. but still issues with lying. If it had been great and wonderful up until this recent craziness, I would understand more. However, this on top of me hanging on for a few years just for my kids, due to the lying on his part, is the icing on the cake. I believe he is a habitual liar, because he has lied about stuff for years. I have tried to get him to get help or go to counseling, but he doesn't see it as a big issue. I see it as a huge issue. This MLC behavior on top of it is just too much.
Also, having no consideration for my daughters feelings when he took her around OW. It bothered her a lot, and he didn't even consider it. I guess he wanted to use her like a cute little pawn to impress his young OW. Oh, look at what a great dad I am, watch me play with my daughter, blah,blah,blah. All the while I cheat on her mother, yep, I'm a great catch.
Okay, I know that last part was a lot of venting, but what the hell.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
