Of course you didn't let me down. You know your sitch better than I do, I just give advice as I see it. Just remember the Boy Scout's motto: be prepared.
One comment though: "I think I will at least drop the line that she uses this time to think of what she wants. "
Instead of just "what she wants" clarify it to say "what she wants IN LIFE". Don't have her thinking R. Ask her to think about what is it in life she wants. What are her goals? her dreams? what she wants to accomplish. The R is just a circumstance.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
