My W's father passed away 4 years ago and I really think that was the beginning of our downhill slide. She never really talked (just cried for more than a year)and I never really understood what she was going through, and our R never really recovered.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.