BUT like many said live your life as if he isn't coming back... so if it would take 6 months or more to get yourself ready to move back to your family then if you talk to your H and start wheels in motion he might see you are serious and it might force the issue for him to make some decisions (if he is going too)
That does sound good! And it prob. would take 6 months or so, so you could start baby steps in that direction, if you think that's what you want. Karen
