what is it you feel has been left unsaid? What is your goal in communicating with her? You know there are all those other issues with you and her, and control was one of the big ones. You can't leave her alone. Why? She WANTS you to leave her alone for now. She dislikes the pursuit and pleading you do...she told you that. It is not a turn on.
This "process" or MLC or whatever she's going through, is a process. You cannot help her with it. It's as if she has a puzzle to complete by herself but you keep hanging around her and looking over her shoulder, even when she tells you she wants to do it herself, you don't listen, and you keep telling her where to put the pieces and you are slowing her progress down....A LOT...and you're ignoring what she told you to do and not do. Sure, someone here will tell you "Don't listen to HER! Be the MAN, be the Boss!" ETC...but really, if you'd just leave her alone for awhile You'd come off as a lot stronger...and chances are, you'd feel better too. Am I wasting my time writing to you? Can you just re-read some of the posts so we don't have the same conversations almost daily? I'm not trying to be mean; I'm just frustrated.
Just be the best single dad you can be, for now. That's hard enough. Do that well, and leave the rest up to God (and I doubt I can bear repeating that again). But it's important that you get it. Really.
(( j ))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
