What is really odd is how the Ml'er puts the cart before the horse.

They can't see that the affair caused the negative behaviors from the spouse.

They think the spouses negative behaviors MADE THEM have the affair or LEAVE THE FAMILY.

Call it delusion, irrational behavior, justification, etc.....

These guys really see things like this.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11