I don't bring her up. The ONLY time I brought her up was when my d3 told me they had been with her and I confronted him about it. I have not asked any details, questions, or brought it up since then. I do not want to give her, or him that power.

I'm not expecting him to work on anything right now. That's not going to happen. That is why I'm going to protect myself and my children legally. I'm not one of those that is willing to ignore and let him disrespect me for years. I am still young and have time to find someone (later on) that won't treat me that way. I wouldn't want him now if he came crawling back to me on a silver platter. No trust= no relationship. I'm just in awe of how crazy this whole thing is.


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
Robert Collier

"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments."
Henry Ward Beecher

me 33, s 9, d 4