Just read your situation. I know how difficult it is right now. I am sorry you are going through this. I also had the B dropped and D filed quickly w/o any time to talk through things or try to improve our M. It's very frustrating.
Definitely continue with your own lawyer. Detaching and finding things to fill your extra time will help a lot. Things will slowly get better but it's tough. I know this site will help you out a lot...as it has me.
Me:28, first M H: 33, second M Married: 08/08 Bomb: 10/08 H filed D and deployed: 12/08 Served: 04/09 I deploy: 07/09 Hearing date: 08/09
