I would agree. Putting your D in the middle is cruel, she is not a pawn in a chess game. Be polite but don't show him any affection or joke about the past. Put that wall up and I am sure you will get through it just fine.
Thanks for the saying for today. I do realize that every day is special and I am blessed to have it. Hey I got upset when Heath Ledger died way too young as well. It just hits home about the fragility of it all. I tell my kids how much they mean to me and how much I love them. I don't want there ever to be any doubt.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
