Mostly because they will never be able to completely cut off the relationship because of the baby. The contact will always have to be maintained and that just freakin' sucks. She is also one to use the kids as an emotional bargaining chip.

Its more of a push me, pull you situation right now. He starts fights and is crabby with me, which pisses me off and makes me wonder why I would even bother.

Not fun, thanks for the advice.


M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option