Well, if he was actually trying to work on his relationship with just the kids, fine but he is working on forcing a family. He really is a heartless POS after all. kat
He is trying desparately to make this all "ok" for himself. If he can give the illusion of a "happy family" then he will be able to justify his actions to himself. I love that your DS said, "That'll never happen." Its a much needed does of reality.
You are a good and kind hearted person, but your are nobodys fool either. If the more parenting time works for you and it actually means more "parenting" on his part, ok so be it. If it is to simply further his "justification" agenda then I'd say forget it.
I also liked the thing about quiet time. ((((hugs)))))
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
