This is probably getting old but if you have time, could you please look at my thread. It is in newcomers. It is only one thread, so it is not THAT much to read. You may have the magic perspective to help break our limbo.
I will bump it up so it is easy to find.
Thanks so much.
It is called I'm Clueless Sherlock...
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted