Peace I am right there with ya. I am soooo sorry you had to go thru this, it is truly an awful thing to go thru in life. I think sometimes it is worse than "death". My son is almost 19 and sometimes I feel glad that he is not young going thru this, but he DOES hurt as well and I wish I could take that away. My xh says things like "son is an adult and not his responsbility anymore". He does have contact with son by phone, but hasnt seen him in awhile. He is taking him fishing and to nascar race soon though, along with ow. I think my xh is quilty and trying to win him over with stuff like this. My xh also ran from his responsbilities, he moved another woman in, drank with his buds alot, and works out like crazy. I dont know what he is looking for, but I hope he finds it soon. I dont have ANY contact with him....for over 2 weeks now I havent spoken with him. It is so hard. I feel your pain.
