Hiya-- Good, I'm glad you're still with me, I was worried. The cheek thing is so very weird. Maybe that's his one last front of resistance? Maybe you are starting to really look smokin' hot already and he's noticing..???? Maybe it didn't slip out as much as he wanted to see what your reaction would be...???? What do you think his reaction is going to be if you go dark for his trip? You don't think he's going to want to call and check in with you? How often do you initiate contact now?