My DB coach said one of the things I should be doing right now is making sure he knows the bridge home is not destroyed and to be doing as much as I could to let him come home and save face. But that was before the two large back slides and much of his "We're not getting back together....if it weren't for the economy, this would be done.....I'm not married--haven't been in months."
What you're feeling seems normal to me. Go with what the DB coach suggested. I don't think you should or realistically can worry about what H has said to others. I don't think there is anything you can do about yesterday either. Let it go and focus on today.
Keep working toward the detachment. You're off to a great start and you'll do well. It won't happen overnight, but little by little you will get there.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
